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SEVEN CHARACTERS OF GOOD PARENTING If you are deeply concerned or curious about parenting and it come, then paying a visit to any of the local primary school around you would be absolutely necessary in order to be convinced that there is a direct relationship between parenting strategies and observable behavioral pattern in children.  You might be shocked to know that the practices of good or bad parenting reflects and is highly visible in the pupils.  The primary school is a good place to start your research from because you would see these pupils at their tender age and in large numbers displaying freely what they have seen or encountered at home with or without the knowledge of their parents.  Some go as far as mimicking their parents and siblings. It is at this level that you would see what they are truly made up of and capable of doing.  Though they might be smart, but do not have much knowledge skills, techniques and strategy that is needed to conceal what they have been expos

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  How often do you experience boredom ? May be once or twice in a week, or repeatedly and frequently during the week. As humans, at one time or another, you have the tendency of been bored.  And this is simply because, at certain moment, there isn't any activity to keep you engaged. Sometime, there might be some activities going on around you, but you are not interested because it doesn't appeal to you. First and foremost, It is necessary to understand that been bored isn't something bad as some person's perceive, but managing boredom properly will definitely be in your best interest. Without beating around the bush, here are some effective ways to kill Boredom.   Understand your values ; what are your values? what do you hold in high esteem?   You could be someone that value time so much, and allowing time slip away without doing anything productive might make you feel sick and extremely bored. You might even love been entertained at most time, possibly it help you man

  “ When the going gets tough, only the tough gets going ” Whether you choose to agree with this above statement or not, that doesn't change the fact that it is inevitably true. Negative influence drains your positive energy.   For example have you ever been in a very elated and excited mood, then you receive a message or a call informing you of the death of a loved one , probably your dad, mom, siblings, close friends or relative ? I am very sure that at one time or another we have found ourselves in such unfortunate situation, My condolences. What happens next, we discover that immediately we hear such news, our countenance changes from smiles to weeping, from joy to sadness, from happiness to sorrow, This alone helps us understand that in just less than a minute a negative message, event, influence or situation  could crush our positive vibe. This occurred to me when I lost my father. What is my point exactly ? The fact is that it is quite difficult to stay positive in an envir

(Reading this piece till the end qualifies you for a free gift.) One’s mental health is as important as one’s physical health, if not even more important. Most times, your mentally state controls your emotional state, and your emotional state has a direct impact on your physical appearance, countenance, as well as your disposition, it can tell or reflect on how you look and your well-being in general. That is why whenever you are worried, or in a perturbed state and thinking too much, you begin to emaciate or lose weight, this is your body responding to the state of your mind, I am pretty sure at one time or the other that you have experienced this because I have too. Your mental state can even translate to your behavior or actions, for example when your mental state is undergoing any form of conflict, you could end up having mood swing and begin to display acts like transferring aggression to people around. All this is just to say that when someone is physically unhealthy, then it cou

FIVE QUALITIES YOU SHOULDN'T BASE YOUR TRUST ON Don't trust people by their looks, a calm, simple, Innocent, beautiful or responsible face could be misleading and deceptive. Don't trust people by their voices, that sonorous voice could just be the Delilah's signal call that will alert the Philistines. Don't trust people by strength, those muscles might just be met for entertainment after all, and it will fail when battles comes, like that of Goliath which was humbled by just a simple catapult. Don't trust people by their influence, every power is always subjected to a higher authority, non is absolute except God's power. Don't trust people by their affluence, ordinary recession will teach you that wealth is just a denomination which can be high today and crashes tomorrow. TRUST PEOPLE BY THEIR CHARACTER Follow the link below and gain access to this intriguing, interesting, compelling and captivating book; The Ruthless Despots; www.dautho

About the book This book tends to expose the fact that during times of wars, chaos and insecurity in a country even in cases of insurgency, the media plays a vital role in serving the public with relevant information concerning the state of things at any particular point in time, or even as things unfolds and develops. A lot of people are either ignorant of this, or deliberately feel unconcerned; but this does not change the fact that somewhere in the middle of a heated battle, at least one journalist must have lost their life for his or her country. The bible says, "Give honour to whom honour is due." As such, I think these fallen heroes ought to be   recognized, but today how many societies truly honour such people who have given their life to service it? The modern society easily recognizes politicians, fashion trends, movie stars, and musicians, amongst others.  No doubt, MOST of them merit the recognition, but what about thousands who have died so that news and in

THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN INTELLIGENCE AND MATURITY Intelligence is the ability to THINK and understand. While, Maturity is the ability to BEHAVE and act. Take note of these words; THINK and BEHAVE. THUS Intelligence is passive, where as Maturity is active. HENCE Maturity is an appropriate display of meaningful intelligence. In simple terms, it is the ability to act on what you understand. THEREFORE Intelligence is intellectual maturity alone, it doesn't represent or reflects other facet of maturity. IN TOTALITY Maturity is the deliberate conditioning of the mind towards intellectual, cultural, emotional,spiritual, psychological, social and moral training which is thereafter accompanied by its application. ALTERNATIVELY Maturity is the ability to coordinate ones sense of perception ( intelligence inclusive), and correlates it with one's sense of interpretation and application. WORTHY OF NOTE Intelligence is just a part of maturity. Maturity c

THE STRENGTH OF A CHARACTER The Strength of a character is like a magnet. It is that unexplainable pull or force that naturally attracts people towards our personality. It is highly spiritual and brings our existence to people’s consciousness constantly. Some people sees it as an energy that engages other persons/people without any form of Verbal Interaction. It is more of a Non-verbal entity than a verbal one. The Strength of a character is one of the few reasons why we say people fall in love at first sight even without speaking a word to one another. Some people believes that charisma, mannerism, gesticulations and other forms of strength of character, while others feel these are necessary ingredient or condiments used to spice up an already existing strength of a character. A strength of character can be viewed from different perspective, it is vast with various dimensions. A person’s strength of character is dynamic and evolves with time, though it could be fixed i

YOUTH AND FREEDOM Caught up in the Euphoria There is a feeling of ebullience that is associated with been a youth, the commonest of them all is the amazing feeling of freedom to do as one wishes without much interference or control from parents unlike during our adolescent phase of life.  Having waited all our lives to be set free from the tyranny of our parents, the youthful stage is now a phase to explore and experiment. It is a stage accompanies with so much energy and vibes that needs to be dissipated as quickly as it is produced so it can be replaced.      But as youth, we should know that freedom is priceless and irreplacable, it is a highly  valued entity that should be treated respectfully. Freedom has a direct relationship with time, this is because no one can have full control of his/her time forever, for example, when a youth gets married his/her level of freedom reduces due to the fact that he/ she now devotes a portion of his/her time to family responsibilities, as

The Author’s Perspective Life It has come to my realization that Life is as fragile as the people that possesses it. Life consists of fragile inevitable moment of tears, cushioned with chairs of sorrow, plagued with embroidery / emblem of smiles and stamped with badges of happiness.  It is a total robust package of the good, the bad and the ugly. with this It is therefore important to understand that you have to take life a step at a time just as it comes, it is worthy of note that life is not to be countered with confrontation as it will make things more difficult, do not take temporary issues of life too dear to the heart because the heart is a fragile piece of biological machine which can be crashed down or shut down when over heated  and overburdened with unnecessary issues of life. Life generally offers us a hot spicy chilly plate /painful sting of failure which we ought to convert to  a chilled juicy glass drink of relaxation, determination and resilient, it presents us with a